Since I move to US when I was 16, I barely contact my friends anymore (now I’m 20). I’m not sure, but I have a feeling that they think I forget them or something like that since I don’t go back to my country anymore. It’s not that I don’t want to go back, but I really really don’t have money for it. I lived in Southeast Asia, and the plane ticket from US is super expensive.
I have some friends who study in US too as international students and their parents are rich. But I’m not international students. My parents immigrated here, so all my school expense are paid by the government and my university. I’m poor, and they don’t seem to get it. I hate it every time they ask and I patiently telling them that I don’t have the money. I can use facebook or chatting to communicate with them, but that’s about it. I’m busy with my school too. This girl texted me asking when I will go back, so I jokingly tell her that my wallet is too thin for that, and she didn’t reply back. So I’m like, wt*??? I facebook messaged my friends, and they are the ones who never reply back. Again, wt*??? They probably think I’m cocky and stuff, but I’m not >< I hate that I can't tell them this.
What should I do?? What should I tell them? Thank you guys 
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What Should I Do If My Friend Overseas Think I’m Arrogant Because I Move To America And Barely Contact Them?
February 8th, 2012Since I move to US when I was 16, I barely contact my friends anymore (now I’m 20). I’m not sure, but I have a feeling that they think I forget them or something like that since I don’t go back to my country anymore. It’s not that I don’t want to go back, but I really really don’t have money for it. I lived in Southeast Asia, and the plane ticket from US is super expensive.
I have some friends who study in US too as international students and their parents are rich. But I’m not international students. My parents immigrated here, so all my school expense are paid by the government and my university. I’m poor, and they don’t seem to get it. I hate it every time they ask and I patiently telling them that I don’t have the money. I can use facebook or chatting to communicate with them, but that’s about it. I’m busy with my school too. This girl texted me asking when I will go back, so I jokingly tell her that my wallet is too thin for that, and she didn’t reply back. So I’m like, wt*??? I facebook messaged my friends, and they are the ones who never reply back. Again, wt*??? They probably think I’m cocky and stuff, but I’m not >< I hate that I can't tell them this.
What should I do?? What should I tell them? Thank you guys
Did My Ex Go Insane Because Of What I Did To Him? 10 Points For Best Answer?
January 11th, 2012Did I drive my ex insane or was it him?
I’ll make this as short as possible. I met a man I truly loved a year and a half ago. I was recovering from the heartbreak of a three year relationship and met him while out with friends
We fell in love the night we met. He lived in New York and I in Arizona. For the next five months, we’d talk on the phone for hours every night and fly to visit one another several times.
After about five months of…”long distance dating”, he had to go overseas for a volunteer program for one year. He offered to forgo it for me, but this was a lifelong dream of his and I had my own matters to attend to.
Before he left, he asked me to be his girlfriend. With the knowledge of a 23 year old man in Europe with a bunch of backpackers, I told him I couldn’t. If something happened I didn’t want to ruin our trust. I told him when he came home, we would be boyfriend/girlfriend, and if anything were to happen, just don’t tell me. He repeatedly asked me for commitment, and I denied it…I just didn’t feel it was smart or we were ready for a serious relationship while being so far apart.
After about 3 weeks on his trip, he called me crying saying he got drunk and slept in a girls bed. I was shocked, he told me it wouldn’t happen yet it did. He apologized and was very emotional and I felt like I couldn’t even get mad at him because he was so shook up by his indiscretion. I was heartbroken and told him, but within a few days I moved past it and told him to still book his flight home in a month for valentines day.
After holding in my anger over the incident for about a month, I finally addressed my hurt and anger over the situation. He had booked a flight home for valentines day to see me, but I realized I wasn’t ready to see him. So I told him that I needed time a week before he flew home. I know I shouldn’t have waited to tell him I wasn’t ready, but I did.
With his ticket already booked, he still flew home to see me in February and I didn’t see him. He flooded my Facebook inbox and voicemail with pleas as to how it wasn’t his fault and how I didn’t love him. I was hurt and now even more hurt
After 3 weeks of crying on his part he flew back to Europe. When this happened, knowing I missed my chance to see him, I messaged him, stupidly, that I still loved him and made a mistake
After a month of long distance talking again, I told him I loved him and asked him to be my boyfriend, for the first time. Things were wonderful again and he decided to cut his trip short 3 months early to visit me, as we couldn’t imagine waiting any longer to see each other.
Two weeks before he flew home, I met another man at a coffee shop. He swept me off my feet. I spoke to friends about this and they agreed, I couldn’t continue the relationship.
The day my boyfriend landed in America, I sent him a message saying that I met someone new and my feelings faded, and It would be best if we didn’t see each other.
His response was shocked at first, followed by anger and rage.
Since, he has harassed me and my friends on Facebook. He called me a sl’t, c’nt, b’tch…he told me to die and burn in hell. I have had to change my phone number and delete my email account. He even speaks to my aunt about me.
I understand that I destroyed his heart. I understand that he cut his trip short for me. I understand that it was wrong for me to test him with an open relationship and leave him when he was honest with me about what happened. I know he’s not a bad person he volunteers and is great with kids and never once yelled at me or touched me when we were together. He would do everything he could to make sure I was happy.
Since all this happened 7 months ago, he has sent me
a 1000 angry emails, sent angry messages to my friends on Facebook who he has never met, and began contacting my aunt about his struggles. He has never threatened violence but has said he will show up to Phoenix and hold “hunger strikes” outside my parents house.
I know I hurt him but I also know I don’t deserve this. He messages me that i made him into a monster
He flew home twice for me I’m very sorry and I know he didnt deserve it
The System Has Experienced Boot Failure Because Of Overclocking Error?
December 1st, 2011I Get this “error” in my BIOS when i boot up, I have 2x4GB 1600 Patriot memory and moved them from slot 4 and 3 to slot 1 and 2 on my motherboard then this popped up everytime i boot, should I move them back to the original slots? The original reason for moving them was so I could run them in dual channel on my 64bit.
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Seriously I Cant Watch 49ers Vs Ravens Because Of Nfl Network?
November 21st, 2011I hate that channel. The NFL sucks if it doesn’t let the majority of viewers watch the weeks best match ups. Why dont they just put the whole ******* season on NFL network so I can go watch hockey instead of wasting my time pumping myself up for good football games?
Oldest Won’t Come Home For Christmas Because Of My Wife His Step Mom….?
November 16th, 2011I am remarried and my oldest kid is 21 and in college across the country well last few years he has made excuses and just blatantly blown me off to come home because he doesn’t like my new wife who i recently married not even would he come home for his 14 year old baby sister! I am not sure what to do or how to convince him to come home i have bought him airline tickets numerous times to no avail and i am just getting frustrated and depressed because i want him home with us on christmas! How can i get him to come home? Advice? anyone ever deal with this before?
Friend Angry Because I Got A Girlfriend?
November 8th, 2011Im 14, I got a girlfriend a few days ago and now one of my friends hates me! It started when I got my girlfriend maybe that’s why, but now whenever I come up to him he either says p*ss off or f**k off. And he’s not talking to me. What can i do? I’m wondering if he will get over it or maybe I shouldn’t be friends with him as i don’t think that’s acting as a proper friend. what should I do?
Thanks
